Presence

Momentum is Never Locked In

Pair of human hands giving water on sunset - allowing the receiving

I approve of myself. A very long time, ago at least 28 years, when I first got my hands on Louise Hays’ You Can Heal Your Life, I started repeating these words over and over and over again.  It didn't always feel very good and it definitely didn't feel very true. At that time I >> keep reading

Self Judgment is Physically Painful

Woman on roof releasing dove w words Release into Love

Self judgment is physically painful. I discovered that in an unavoidable way one night  a few weeks back as I almost unconsciously (until it became conscious) slammed myself over and over again with one judgment after another. It felt so normal, this judgment. Normal. Routine. For a while, the judgement came in the voice of >> keep reading

Slow Down. Get Curious.

Kid peeking through fence - get curious

Try not to sink into habitual sadness at the first hint of it. Instead, get curious. Notice the sensation of sadness for what it is: an indicator. Begin to question it. Notice instead that you could simply sink into your heart, into love. No matter what else wants its voice. Notice that first! Notice that >> keep reading

Love Notes To My Small Self

I have come to love my love notes to myself. Opening my journal this afternoon again, getting ready to write and landing on the page that said this: “Could you let the experience that you have of Me be unique to you, new, fresh everyday, every moment?” Remembering the moment that thought landed into my >> keep reading

Surrender Into Deep Freeze (aka Stillness)

Snow Falling

I spent some time  Saturday morning journaling about the positive aspects of icy roads, feeling stuck at home and solitude bordering at times on isolation. If everything is always working out for me (and it is) the roads should be clear so I can drive on them, dammit! Isolation isn’t good for me! Everyone knows >> keep reading

What If?

What if , moment by moment in 2017, I abandoned all sense of limit and allowed myself to experience full-on Bliss in whatever way it makes itself known to me as defined by me and the moment? What could open up? What does that level of freedom feel like? And can I have it now >> keep reading

Joy Beneath the Chaos?

Joyfilled Holidays to you

Joy filled holidays from my heart to yours. I would love to be sitting across from you at Starbucks or Imagine Coffee (an artist’s haven in my area) or at Emily’s Beanery (the name my beautiful friend Bethlyn and I lovingly give to the Beanery near Market of Choice in Corvallis) having deep conversation. I >> keep reading

Breathe it In, Dance it Through

Breathe it In, Dance it Through

Breathe it in, dance it through. Breath it in. Dance it through. Permission to feel it … whatever it is, to breathe it in, to dance it through. I started this morning as I woke up and yesterday jumped in almost instantly … and the day before and before … a series of intense and >> keep reading

Renewed Focus on What Matters (It’s Not What You Think)

Woman relaxing in a wicker chair, tending to the flow of wellbeing

I learned something crucial this week … For better or worse, my default is to go to worst case scenario. My children have been telling me this for most of their lives. I thought it was just them being my kids and playing devil’s advocate because that is what kids do. Turns out there was >> keep reading

When All Else Fails, Stop.

Solitarty man in coffee shop, gazing out window.

When all else fails, stop. Maybe even before you do the "all else". Pause. Change the trajectory in your mind. Give yourself a change of venue. It shifts the tone of your self talk and allows for the solution to show itself. I inadvertently killed my website Tuesday. As I was cloning a site to >> keep reading